Honey works better than vinegar.
The popular phrase aptly reflects the intent of the Howard County School Board?s proposed civility policy.
School officials released a draft of the policy intended to promote courteous and respectful behaviors among school employees, parents and community members.
“This policy is one of the linchpins for our goal [of promoting a safe and nurturing environment],” Board Chairman Joshua Kaufman said on Thursday at the school board meeting.
Kaufman, who is seeking re-election on the School Board, acknowledged Frank Aquino, who is also seeking a seat on the board, for developing the idea for the policy.
In a previous Examiner article, Aquino, an attorney, said about the policy: “I?m a consensus builder, and we have to set a positive example. That in-your-face type of behavior doesn?t have a place withinthe school system. I think it?s appropriate to set forth a statement that we are going to conduct ourselves in a civil manner.”
According to the policy, people should:
» Show respect and courtesy in language, demeanor and actions.
» Use a moderate tone and volume of voice.
» Show respect while listening to another person.
In addition, people should not:
» Use rude, insulting or demeaning language.
» Be persistent about unreasonable demands.
» Demonstrate intrusive behavior.
The document also points out avenues for training and resolving conflicts via the school system?s ombudsman, who operates as an impartial person to solve issues.
“I see this as a blueprint for making it a part of our culture,” said School Board Member Patricia Gordon, who is also seeking re-election on the board.
